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For the Kingdom

A last morning in Siem Reap. We largely spent our time plotting next moves. To compensate for a rushed timeline in Laos, we’d decided to slow down in Cambodia. But as each action has a reaction, this meant Vietnam would be the dream deferred. Most of our family and friends seemed most curious about Vietnam, and our detour is not just about being dissidents. It is quite likely we will come back to Asia and be able to dedicate more than 5 days to Vietnam. Plus, our Chiang Mai experience of pollution in towns with limited public transport made us wonder whether Ho Chi Minh/Saigon will be less hectic by 2018 when a metro will theoretically be functioning.

But on to food. Our farewell Siem Reap lunch was at the booked-up Haven Restaurant. Known as a training ground for future chefs, wait staff and support staff, Haven would make Chef Ramsey proud. In addition to being a well-oiled machine, the food was delicious. Cambodian food has been a highlight, and we have done a lot of comparison shopping of Fish Amok and Beef Lok Lak. We’ve seldom been disappointed. Just in case you are in the area or looking to get inspired:
http://www.havencambodia.com/en/about-haven/

That said, arriving in the big city of Phnom Penh, we diversified our cuisine intake. When the Vietnamese banh mi sandwich shop had run out of baguettes, we moved on to Mexican. Sadly, the chef’s motorcycle also moved on while we were eating, which lead our waiter to give caution about dangers of the big city. So we fled to the fringe of the city proper and to what seems to be T’s favorite beer here – Kingdom Pilsener. Seemed the brewery conveniently sponsored a First Friday beer and burger night. We and every Peace Corps volunteer in town were in! Turns out that chef Mike is a Cambodian who took refuge in L.A. and now maybe 30 years later has returned to Phnom Penh with his improved version of In-n-Out burger. A refugee from the Khmer Rouge, then a postal worker in L.A., and now a burger entrepreneur running two restaurants in Phnom Penh. This city was intriguing from night one.

And the beer was good 🙂

Good marketing

We had one day left in our three-day pass to Angkor Wat, so we set out for the more distant temples and ruins in hope there would be more carvings than cameras.

We arrived at a well curated Banteay Srei, known as the Citadel of Women or Beauty and dedicated to the Hindu god Shiva. Supported by Swiss aid, the ruins have a cloak room, restaurants and shops which are missing at larger sites near Angkor – for better and worse. For better, Banteay Srei has conservation lands surrounding it, with local farmers, water buffalo, chickens and the like which make it a peaceful setting.
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Aside from this good marketing, the children here have better skills. Two girls selling postcards glued themselves to T, and when their first sales tactic didn’t work, they went with this:

That’s right – Hey, Mr Handsome Man!

 

We also went to the Cambodian Landmine museum, to show respect for more recent history. As my dad had pointed out prior, the US was responsible for intensive air bombing campaigns over Laos and Cambodia in 1969. The museum had remnants of these bombs and primarily focused on the problem of land mines and land mine removal. It was overwhelming and sad to see.
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I’d been reading First they killed my father about the history of Cambodia and it is painful to imagine such recent war and genocide. I found myself reassessing the age of our hotel staff, local restaurant workers and others in terms of how old they’d been when the Khmer Rouge was in power. As a driver pointed out on the way to the temples, Cambodia only started stabilizing in 1999 and tourists coming more since then. And were Cambodians coming back yet? The local paper still reports on daily trials related to the Khmer Rouge, and that past suddenly didn’t seem so distant. The day following our visit to the museum, the paper reported a farmer was killed by a landmine. Thirty years in the past seem remarkably present.

Processing the glory of Angkor Wat’s warring empire of the 1100s, its disappearance in the late 1300s, the American bombings starting in 1969, the Khmer Rouge reign from 1970-5, the fighting and chaos which followed…maybe it can’t still be processed. We tried, while walking around that night, to understand why we glorify temples built by slave labor to ancient warring empires and why we pay to visit museums decrying bombings we carried out. I wondered how long tourist hotels and restaurants will exponentially grow in a country that 30 years ago killed professors, doctors and anyone seeming foreign while aspiring to notions of equality and communalism.

Maybe the answers are back in Thailand along the path to the Buddhist monastery and shrine. Maybe they are all concealed in the same jungle that obscured Angkor Wat from its decline in the late 1300s to its “rediscovery” in the 1860s. Maybe….

Everybody loves a circus

We had the bikes for a day, so to maximize it, we got up early. Not as early as those who wanted to see an Angkor Wat sunrise, as biking in the dark did not appeal to us! Our timing was good, as we arrived at Angkor Wat when the sun was rising and the crowds leaving on their way home to breakfast. We ate our breakfast on the steps and enjoyed being in the minority.

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Onwards, we explored some smaller spots, enjoying Preah Khan which formerly was a university for monks, a temple of the sword and small community. It is in a state of ruins with some restoration going on, including the Adopt-a-Garuda program!
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Our back roads took us to smaller temples and even over a bridge being occupied by a model doing a photo shoot! We landed back with the masses at Ta Phrom, the temple made famous by Angelina Jolie in Tomb Raider. Or, for the nature lovers, famous for the impressive way trees have usurped ancient cities.
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As our bikes were due back, somehow the return seemed longer in the midday sun. But recovery time by the pool corrected that, and got us the necessary relief before a night at the Phare Cambodian Circus.

Phare Ponleu Selpak is a local program establishing a school for performers and artists. They staged a mesmerizing, high energy show under a big top under the full moon. A must see, so here’s a clip:

Wat’s up

Embracing new experiences, we got up before 7 AM to go to a Mexican bar to watch the Super Bowl! Seahawks fans were louder and prouder than the Patriots, and I’m not sure how much their shouting helped the local staff and bystanders understand the game! Strangely, the TV feed had no commercials during possibly the only time I wanted to see them!
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With a championship under our belt, it was time to head to the temples of Angkor Wat where fighting traditions and dancing girls were also revered. Built between 800-1350 A.D. Angkor Wat is actually only one of about 1000 ancient temple remains in the 390 square mile area. Angkor Wat itself is surrounded by a 2.2 square mile moat, which is but one feature making it a favorite sunrise destination. Our dilemma was how to get there on this 90 degree day. Eventually we set out on bikes to the temple complex about 5 miles from our Siem Reap hotel.
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The heat hadn’t stopped the other 6000 visitors a day from enjoying Angkor Wat. Though initially congested, we were able to find a quiet spot to take in the beauty. We’d read up a bit on the history of changes from Buddhist to Hindu temple, and about the carvings of legends in the walls leading up to the main temple.

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Bikes gave us flexibility to explore further, so off we went to other temples. En route we spotted elephants, a way cooler way than bicycles if getting around. Wild monkeys were also about, and one enormous wild pig! Not to get templed out, and more so not to be biking in the dark, we headed back. Maybe it was rush hour, as the local road became a free for all! Watching a twelve year old on a bike navigate a sea of scooters, cars and buses, I gathered my courage and followed T back to the hotel.
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I was rewarded with the pool and dinner at George’s Rhumerie.
http://www.georges-cambodia.com/html/#.VNVbGdkazCQ
George has specialized in making various fruit rums and chutneys and offered tastings of all. A heavenly way of ending a day of temples!

Gini in a bottle

On the way to the airport, T pointed out we hadn’t seen a single traffic light in Luang Prabang. The airport itself – or rather the new airport – opened in 2013 to accommodate larger planes and less frightening mountain landings. Laos, which furthered opened visas and tourism in 1989 is still seen as a sleepier, serene option to neighboring Thailand, Cambodia and Vietnam.

By the numbers, particularly the “Gini” measurement for income distribution or inequality, Cambodia has less inequality than Laos which has less than Thailand which has less than the US. Maybe we need an actual genie to fix all this. How, I don’t know, but I do know there weren’t malls in Luang Prabang yet, and interspersed between hotels were locals living, going to BBQ, and drying their leftover rice into rice cakes. And I wonder if in 10 years that will still be the case.

Our next stop was Siem Reap, Cambodia with the world wonder if Angkor Wat; surely it had lessons in history to offer. Neither of us seemed to have read up on our history or geography, and hoped to see from the plane the famous temple ruins to the east that the jungle had for centuries obscured. Leaving Angkor for tomorrow, we went into Siem Reap which felt a little reminiscent of Times Square. Illuminated signs directed us to Pub Street, but instead we went in a Khmer restaurant catering to foreigners. Cambodian food may readily be becoming my favorite, but what felt truly foreign was paying for the meal in US dollars. Somehow, the US dollar is used as much or more than the Cambodian Riel; at an exchange rate of US$1 to 4059 Riel, change is given in dollars and cents in riel. Just one of a few complicated things to decipher here.

Tak bat

They walked bare footed, in saffron uniforms basically composed of a sheet, and with heads shaved.
We bared little. We were uniformly diverse in our attire except for the required accessory of the camera. We labored about our hair.
And yet there was a pact of sorts.

The monks had agreed to keep their ritual alive. They would, as they had for years, take a morning meditative walk (known as “tak bat”) gathering offerings of food from locals looking to build merit by supporting the monks. We foreigners were drawn to this ceremony, so much so that we were being asked to adhere to guidelines on our end. Published throughout town were signs advising on how to stave off offensive behavior by not stopping a monk’s walk for your photo or dressing disrespectfully for with exposed shoulders and legs. Tourists wanting to participate get dropped off in vans to pre-set mats with foods ready to offer. Much is written about how this religious ritual has been distorted or even perverted by foreign tourist paparazzi. Reportedly, monks even threatened to stop and the government rebutted by threatening to hire people dressed as monks if they stopped.

It’s bizarre. I can’t imagine flocks of tourists coming to photograph daily communion at mass. Is it the thriving aspect of young boys actively engaged as Buddhist novices while Christian devotions seem to be waning (at best) that draws the tourists? Or just the amplification of the exotic not to be found at home experience? Monks perform the tak bat throughout Laos, Thailand and other parts of Asia; photos even exist of the present Thai king performing the ritual when he was a monk for 2 weeks. Imagine one of our leaders walking barefoot, silently accepting offerings of food prepared by the common citizen.
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Drawn by curiosity and deterred by flashbulbs, we went early to the far end and sat in front of a house opposite where the monks walk. We saw the young monks smoke and spit as they peeked out to see the morning group before drums announced the start of their walk. Later, we saw them return to one temple, sharing part their food as an offering to Buddha and joking with their teacher. We saw neighbors quietly catching up on their news before the next temple’s monks arrived. Solemnity remains in the ritual, at least when seated at the periphery (with your flash off).
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Not accustomed to the monks schedule, we had a stop in a temple followed by a leisurely day of coffee shops and planning our next few stops.
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I was able to squeeze in dinner at a local BBQ, but it wasn’t until we left that T told me he was also being BBQed by falling coals! To make it up, we went for beers and fries at a bar where a breakdancing group was throwing down some classic moves. Can’t top that – except with one last mango sticky rice!

Negotiations

We could have gotten up early to see the monks.
I had a leisurely pancake breakfast instead.
We could have bought the little birds for sale as an offering to Buddha during our tour of Phousi Hill and the Vats.
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I didn’t know what you were suppose to do with the birds – set them free? Leave them by Buddha in their miniature bamboo cage? My Lao doesn’t go far enough to ask.

We could have hopped on a tour.
I wanted to pick up ballet tickets for the night instead.
We could have taken it easy, and ridden bikes between coffee shops.
I jumped on the discounted offer to the waterfall as an exchange for T sitting through ballet.
We could have made it back in time for the drumming.
We made in back for a pre-ballet cocktail instead.
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I wouldn’t have changed a thing.

Except…

– Maybe booked in with French group who had tablecloths, wine and a catered picnic by the falls. Darn those French!
– Maybe found the steps down the falls instead of slip sliding in the mud.
– Maybe gotten to the falls before the other 200+ tourists.
– Maybe upgraded to the seat with the cushion for the ballet.
– Maybe gone back for a post-ballet whiskey sour.

But these are just rounding errors.
A 98.7% perfect day, just to keep me honest.

Joy of cooking

Recipe

1 local Lao chef with English good enough for jokes
2 large BeerLao, cold
4 Germans, 2 Canadians, 1 Texan living in Spain
40 stems of lemongrass
1 bottle of fish sauce
1 jar of local fish sauce (the stinky one per Chez Joy)
1 gangal root never seen before (like ginger)
Tamarind
A pinch of salt
A pinch of MSG just because

Instructions:
1. First go to fancy restaurant in the morning where you will find other farangs (white people) dropping hundreds of thousands of Kip.
2. Pile into tuk tuk where you and the other farangs inconspicuously follow Chef Joy speaking English to explain the local herbs while locals stare at us taking pictures of pineapples.
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3. No stopping for questions in the meat section of the market. It makes the vegetarians queasy, and most carnivores too. So know in advance the thing you don’t recognize is congealed blood, and yes, they do sell pigs faces as an offering to the spirits or the base of a stew.
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4. Pile back in with your friends to an elegant courtyard school and begin making sticky rice, while using the pestle to pound out an eggplant amuse bouche.
5. Pestles up again for the rub for a fish. Then practice origami banana leaf folding which you have hopefully secured well for steaming.
6. Mix kaffir lime leaf, basil, peppers, lemongrass, garlic and buffalo meat. Buffalo blood and tripe optional toppings for this dish known as Laab.
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7. Make cages out of lemongrass for deep fried chicken meatballs.
8. Eat drink and be merry!
9. Top with mango sticky rice.

Makes one or two stuffed Americans happy with their time in Laos.
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Blizzard

My last meal in Thailand was a Dairy Queen blizzard in solidarity with Boston peeps digging out. And because foolishly I thought we’d have more food options at the airport! But alas..our last Thai meal will likely be in Cambodia or New Zealand instead.

We wished we’d arrived in Chiang Dao earlier or been able to stay longer. It was a sleepy town with beautiful town with many trails to explore, yummy places to eat and breathing was easy. I can understand how a wandering monk ceased wandering and planter roots here.

A hop, skip and a jump and we were in Laos. The prospect excited and scared me as it meant time had tricked me again, and rather then moving slowly as it felt, weeks had flown by.
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Luang Prabang in Laos is a UNESCO world heritage site. This moniker comes with the recognition of being significant (here to architecture and religious history) and also getting some preservation funds. It also means there is finally no Starbucks. Laos is also one of five communist countries left, but I think there’s less funds that go with that status.

Luang Prabang is a scenic town in the hills, filled with temples and tourists and a slower pace. Yet it comes at a higher price, with accommodation twice what we’ve paid in our last two stops. Maybe it feels more expensive because the smallest note in Laos Kip is 1000 which is $0.12. Dropping a couple grand is just another day here.
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To orient ourselves, we went for a walk by the small river and enjoyed sunset and the kids playing soccer on the banks. We felt we erred in Thailand by eating Thai food nonstop for three weeks, so to mend our ways we set out for pizza out first night in Laos. Easy to find, once you traversed a questionable bamboo bridge. We inhaled our pizza, while our Lao neighbors had extra chili sauce and three slices to take home. A good start to our brief stint in Laos.
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In a happy fog

We woke up in the mists to roosters. It was a happy reset. The town crier was shouting out news updates incomprehensible to us. The Chiang Dao mountain stood strong, and the locals wrapped in sweaters and hats went about morning market and other activities in this “wintery” morning of low 60s.
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When in Rome, we we went with the locals to the market and I finally caught the pig! When we’d been in Bangkok, I’d asked our Thai hostess what people do here with pig’s faces as I’d seen a few at markets and couldn’t fathom the purpose. She hypothesized it was just so people would know its pork! And said she hadn’t seen such things. T being ever accommodating held a photo session with the pigs head/face at the morning market so I could provide evidence to our friend. Strangely, he found this photo session easier than my waterfalls pictures, but to each their own.
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We continued exploring around on bikes, and as we were in the mountains it seemed a hike was in order. T loved the jungle hike so much he asked if we could visit the temple/Wat instead. Apparently the humid jungle is the perfect antidote to temple fatigue. What a brilliant thing it turned out to be as this remote temple was a favorite. On the 500 steps up, the monks displayed sayings from the Buddha in Thai and English which made for good contemplation on the climb. At the top, we were alone with the shrine and our thoughts, no selfie sticks in sight. It made us both peacefully contemplative, and slow to return down.
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Blessed by Buddha or by our innkeepers herbal remedy or completion of his antibiotics, T was back to Thai food. Brilliant! A nearby restaurant was serving up some of the best we’d had delivered by a funny waitress. All things were coming back to order at the and of our time in Thailand.
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